Because I was brought up in a children's home from birth n 'fostered out', and with not knowing who my parents were, I spent the first 30 years of my life going along with other people's flow, and following the 'norm' of society, n then I spent the next 30 years of my life, tracing my mother and father, finding them, and then grew into who I was meant to be, creating my own identity and finding my true self n lovin n living my 'now' lifestyle, and I have become 'a nan with a kick'.